When Harry Met Sally...
Can two friends sleep together and still love each other in the morning?
1989 | 96m | English
Popularity: 6 (history)
| Director: | Rob Reiner |
|---|---|
| Writer: | Nora Ephron |
| Staring: |
| Sex always gets in the way of friendships between men and women. At least, that's what Harry Burns believes. So when Harry meets Sally Albright and a deep friendship blossoms between them, Harry's determined not to let his attraction to Sally destroy it. But when a night of weakness ends in a morning of panic, can the pair avoid succumbing to Harry's fears by remaining friends and admitting they just might be the perfect match for each other? | |
| Release Date: | Jul 12, 1989 |
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| Director: | Rob Reiner |
| Writer: | Nora Ephron |
| Genres: | Comedy, Romance, Drama |
| Keywords | new york city, new year's eve, husband wife relationship, restaurant, platonic love, orgasm, friendship, diner, valentine's day, christmas, lighthearted, reminiscent, cliché |
| Production Companies | Castle Rock Entertainment, Nelson Entertainment |
| Box Office |
Revenue: $92,823,546
Budget: $16,000,000 |
| Updates |
Updated: Jan 16, 2026 Entered: Apr 13, 2024 |
| Name | Character |
|---|---|
| Billy Crystal | Harry Burns |
| Meg Ryan | Sally Albright |
| Carrie Fisher | Marie |
| Bruno Kirby | Jess |
| Steven Ford | Joe |
| Lisa Jane Persky | Alice |
| Michelle Nicastro | Amanda |
| Gretchen Palmer | Stewardess |
| Robert Alan Beuth | Man on Aisle |
| David Burdick | 9 Year Old Boy |
| Joe Viviani | Judge |
| Harley Jane Kozak | Helen |
| Joseph Hunt | Waiter at Wedding |
| Kevin Rooney | Ira |
| Franc Luz | Julian |
| Tracy Reiner | Emily |
| Kyle T. Heffner | Gary |
| Kimberley LaMarque | Waitress |
| Stacey Katzin | Hostess |
| Estelle Reiner | Older Woman Customer |
| John Arceri | Christmas Tree Salesman |
| Peter Day | Joke Teller at Wedding |
| Kuno Sponholz | Documentary Couple |
| Connie Sawyer | Documentary Couple |
| Charles Dugan | Documentary Couple |
| Katherine Squire | Documentary Couple |
| Al Christy | Documentary Couple |
| Frances Chaney | Documentary Couple |
| Bernie Hern | Documentary Couple |
| Rose Wright | Documentary Couple |
| Aldo Rossi | Documentary Couple |
| Dona Hardy | Documentary Couple |
| Peter Pan | Documentary Couple |
| Jane Chung | Documentary Couple |
| Bob Ader | Tap Dancer (uncredited) |
| Nicholas Glaeser | Waiter (uncredited) |
| Randy James | Diner Patron (uncredited) |
| Stanley Moore | Truck Driver (uncredited) |
| Larry Sherman | Dinner (uncredited) |
| Marilyn Spanier | Tap Dancer (uncredited) |
| John Speredakos | New Year's Partygoer (uncredited) |
| Terry Vaughan | Giants Fan (uncredited) |
| Anthony Welch | Restaurant Patron (uncredited) |
| Name | Job |
|---|---|
| Rob Reiner | Director |
| Marc Shaiman | Original Music Composer, Music Arranger, Orchestrator |
| Jane Jenkins | Casting |
| Barry Sonnenfeld | Director of Photography |
| Janet Hirshenson | Casting |
| Charles L. Campbell | Supervising Sound Editor |
| Robert Eber | Sound Mixer |
| Barbara Lorenz | Hairstylist |
| Gloria Gresham | Costume Design |
| Stephen Abrums | Makeup Artist |
| Peter Montagna | Makeup Artist |
| Louis L. Edemann | Supervising Sound Editor |
| Mel Metcalfe | Sound Re-Recording Mixer |
| Larry Singer | ADR Supervisor |
| Robert Leighton | Editor |
| George R. Nelson | Set Decoration |
| Mark A. Baker | Unit Production Manager |
| Jane Musky | Production Design |
| Joseph A. Campayno | Makeup Artist |
| Ken Chase | Makeup Artist |
| David J. Hudson | Sound Re-Recording Mixer |
| Terry Porter | Sound Re-Recording Mixer |
| Jennifer L. Parsons | Costume Supervisor |
| William A. Farley | Hairstylist |
| Sabrina Wright | Set Decoration |
| Harry Connick Jr. | Musician, Music Arranger, Songs |
| Nora Ephron | Writer |
| Steve Nicolaides | Production Manager |
| Aaron Barsky | First Assistant Director |
| Michael Waxman | Second Assistant Director |
| Harold Thrasher | Art Department Coordinator |
| Billy Pool | Scenic Artist |
| M. Todd Henry | Camera Operator |
| Angelo Di Giacomo | Assistant Camera |
| Brian W. Armstrong | Assistant Camera |
| Christopher Duskin | Assistant Camera |
| Thomas Miligan | Assistant Camera |
| Kerry Lyn McKissick | Script Supervisor |
| Donna E. Bloom | Location Manager |
| Don Garrison | Location Manager |
| Charles Zalben | Additional Second Assistant Director |
| Lucille OuYang | Additional Second Assistant Director |
| Forrest L. Futrell | Additional Second Assistant Director |
| Steven Nevius | Assistant Editor |
| Debbie Goldsmith | Assistant Editor |
| Norman Buckley | Assistant Editor |
| Scott Stambler | Music Supervisor |
| John Fundus | Boom Operator |
| George Baetz | Boom Operator |
| David L. Glazer | Property Master |
| Dick Tice | Property Master |
| James J. Archer | Props |
| Russell Engels | Gaffer |
| Kevin Kelley | Gaffer |
| Dennis Gamiello | Key Grip |
| Frank Viviano | Construction Coordinator |
| Tim Roslan | Transportation Coordinator |
| James Fanning | Transportation Coordinator |
| Andrew D. Schwartz | Still Photographer |
| Bruce Birmelin | Still Photographer |
| Linda Allan-Folsom | Production Coordinator |
| Jane Raab | Production Coordinator |
| Hwei-Chu Meng | Production Coordinator |
| Judy Bauer | Production Accountant |
| Donna Santora | Assistant Accountant |
| Leslie Cornyn | Assistant Accountant |
| Lynn Goldman | Assistant Accountant |
| Michael Hirshenson | Casting Associate |
| Robin Allan | Casting Associate |
| Maura Minsky | Production Secretary |
| Kathhy Bond | Production Secretary |
| Nicole Barnum | Production Secretary |
| Shell Hecht | Production Secretary |
| Lampton Enochs | Production Assistant |
| Joshua Abelita | Production Assistant |
| Eddie Fickett | Production Assistant |
| Michael Neumann | Production Assistant |
| Carlyn Bochicchio | Production Assistant |
| Jason Charles | Production Assistant |
| Victoria Cullingham | Production Assistant |
| David Jenkins | Production Assistant |
| Richard C. Franklin | Sound Editor |
| Larry Carow | Sound Editor |
| Chuck Neely | Sound Editor |
| Paul Timothy Carden | Sound Editor |
| Pamela G. Kimber | Assistant Sound Editor |
| Rod Rogers | ADR Editor |
| David Gertz | ADR Recordist |
| Dean Drabin | Foley Mixer |
| John Richards | Scoring Mixer |
| Greg Murray | Video Report |
| Gary Burritt | Negative Cutter |
| Ben Wolfe | Musician |
| Ralph Penland | Musician |
| Thomas Richard Sharp | Orchestrator |
| Tina Nielsen | Thanks |
| Jay L. Cooper | Thanks |
| Ronnie Davis | Thanks |
| Sol Horn | Thanks |
| Name | Title |
|---|---|
| Andrew Scheinman | Producer |
| Rob Reiner | Producer |
| Jeffrey Stott | Co-Producer |
| Steve Nicolaides | Co-Producer |
| Nora Ephron | Associate Producer |
| Organization | Category | Person |
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Popularity History
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| 2024 | 4 | 35 | 50 | 23 |
| 2024 | 5 | 58 | 80 | 44 |
| 2024 | 6 | 43 | 64 | 22 |
| 2024 | 7 | 32 | 46 | 20 |
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| 2026 | 1 | 6 | 8 | 4 |
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| 2024 | 8 | 667 | 860 |
A timeless classic! ...
Well worth a watch, as anticipated. <em>'When Harry Met Sally…'</em> is one of those films that I've heard a tonne about but without finding out anything tangible about the plot, the only thing in that regard that I knew was the Katz's Delicatessen location - not even the full scene, just the fam ... ous quote (out of context) from Estelle Reiner. Of course as a romcom drama you know mostly what you're gonna get, but this does have more to it in fairness; big fan of the time jumps, e.g. Billy Crystal is great value throughout, amusing and even touching at moments. Same goes for Meg Ryan, naturally, who I know of only by name; I never remember her face for some odd reason. Carrie Fisher and Bruno Kirby, meanwhile, make for strong supports to the two leads.
Were it not for the now legendary scene in the diner - and, for me, the lovely follow-up from the observing woman at the next table to the waitress, this would just be another quickly-paced, run-of-the-mill, romantic comedy that's exceedingly heavy on the dialogue. It's all about the evolution of th ... e relationship between "Harry" (Billy Crystal) and "Sally" (Meg Ryan). They've been friends since God was a boy, but always preferred to date other people. Now clearly, as we progress through this feast of relationship mishaps, that isn't really working and they come back to their perennial question. Would them having sex ruin a beautiful friendship? The story is set across quite an extended timeframe, and that allows Rob Reiner to reset the episodic nature of the comedy and introduce new partners for us to appreciate, like and loathe as the punchline to the story becomes as obvious as the sun in the sky. The writing is witty and pithy at times, yes, but there's just way too much of it and even though there's a semblance of chemistry between Ryan and Crystal on screen, I just found the whole thing just a bit too obvious. It's not a bad watch, and I know I'm very much in the minority of opinion here, but this is really only a standard vehicle for two averagely talented stars, one of whom can "yes, yes, yes..." with the best of them.
"When Harry Met Sally..." stubbornly insists upon trawling through some of the most sleep inducing and mind numbing banalities of an existence imaginable and the inconsequential nonsense it finds there has been lovingly woven into an equally nonsensical film which relates one couple's endlessly tedi ... ous journey to true happiness. The film incorporates a lot of opinions along the way which are being rapidly outmoded by fast moving modern trends in a world where quaint words such as chivalry and romance have been replaced by casual sex and instant gratification. The desperate attempts at humour successfully fail to raise even a smile and even though you know Harry and Sally are meant to be together you really don't care and when they do eventually sleep together the only reason you take an interest then is because it must mean the film is ending soon and you will be released back into the big bad city and be able to return home again sure in the knowledge it is 96 minutes of your life completely wasted.