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The Mother

It can take a lifetime to feel alive.
2003 | 112m | English

(4869 votes)

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Popularity: 4 (history)

Director: Roger Michell
Writer: Hanif Kureishi
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A grandmother has a passionate affair with a man half her age, who is also sleeping with her daughter.
Release Date: Nov 14, 2003
Director: Roger Michell
Writer: Hanif Kureishi
Genres: Drama, Romance
Keywords parent child relationship, love affair, older woman younger man relationship
Production Companies BBC Film, Renaissance Films, Free Range Films
Box Office Revenue: $1,062,253
Budget: $2,500,000
Updates Updated: Aug 09, 2025
Entered: Apr 13, 2024
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Name Character
Anne Reid May
Daniel Craig Darren
Peter Vaughan Toots
Steven Mackintosh Bobby
Cathryn Bradshaw Paula
Anna Wilson-Jones Helen
Danira Gović Au Pair
Izabella Telezynska Polish Cleaner
Oliver Ford Davies Bruce
Jonah Coombes Estate Agent
Name Job
Fiona Weir Casting
Rosa Romero Line Producer
Nicolas Gaster Editor
Jeremy Sams Original Music Composer
Mark Digby Art Direction
Natalie Ward Costume Design
Alistair Hopkins Post Production Supervisor
Michelle Day Set Decoration
Konnie Daniel Makeup Designer
Roger Michell Director
Hanif Kureishi Writer
Alwin H. Küchler Director of Photography
Mary Selway Casting
Olly Tellett Focus Puller
Mark Tildesley Production Design
Name Title
Angus Finney Executive Producer
Stephen Evans Executive Producer
Kevin Loader Producer
Tracey Scoffield Executive Producer
David M. Thompson Executive Producer
Organization Category Person
Berlin International Film Festival Best Actress Anne Reid Won
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Geronimo1967
6.0

This is quite a tough film to watch. Not so much because of the subject matter, but because you just know there is an inevitability about the conclusion which is going to leave everyone damaged! Anne Reid is good as the eponymous character ("Mary") who loses her husband and finds that she just canno ... t go home. She spends her time between her son and his family and with her daughter and her young son. The former is having his house extended, and so has employed "Darren" (Daniel Craig) - who just happens to be the married boyfriend of her daughter "Paula" (Cathryn Bradshaw). Lonely and craving human companionship, "Mary" gradually becomes infatuated with this hunky tradesman, despite him being half her age, and he is all too willing to help her out. Obviously, her family find out and that's when it all goes awry. It's also when the plot heads full speed into melodrama. This already pretty dysfunctional family sees the wheels come off and the nuanced, emotional and sensitive elements are jettisoned for anger and an sense of the truly unpleasant and course develops. Reid and Craig have a couple of decent scenes together, but for the most part the remaining cast are all pretty lacklustre and the longer it goes on, the more desperate it seems to shock - for the sake of it. The age-gap relationship/sex storyline could have delivered something more here had director Roger Michell not just chickened out.

Sep 03, 2023